RFM Testimonials
What couples have to say!
Honestly, we were headed for a divorce. He had the worse attitude and was always.
upset. It seemed like we were never on the same page and argued about everything. I had
talked to a divorce attorney and only needed to pay the retainer fee.
The RFM experience has saved our marriage. It has brought my husband and I together and
helped us understand each other. It helped us focus on what's important and the exercises
helped us strengthen the foundation for our marriage.
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J. & M
My life felt like it was in shambles, I felt like everyone was using me for my “ambitious” personality. I was in the beginning stages of giving up on my marriage. I didn’t really care about what would happen or if things would ever be repairable. I was pretty much tired.
My spouse and I feel so much more reconnected. Our marriage is starting to reignite that fire we once lost. My husband has a strong desire to be a provider for me, and our communication is improving. As for myself, I am finding myself and I am getting my joy back.
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The RFM experience is truly one I will forever cherish! RFM has not only changed my mind set and approach to life’s obstacles, but it allowed me the freedom from trauma that has held me back for years. When I felt like giving up, RFM showed me that with God first, I will make through anything. I truly appreciate all the new friends I’ve made as well as the relationships I’ve built with my facilitators and help couples.
Antonio & Sharlene
Before Radical, our marriage was flatlining — in desperate need of resuscitation.
But within just 12 weeks, God used the Radical Marriage Ministry as a spiritual defibrillator, pumping hope back into the veins of our relationship. We’ve both grown more patient and compassionate towards each other.
Although we had tried counseling before, nothing impacted us like the Radical approach. My husband felt more at ease because he wasn’t alone—there were other men showing up, willing to do the work, which helped him feel safe to look inward.
I also deeply appreciated the supportive environment. It was beautiful to see couples at all stages—some just needing a tune-up, others needing a complete overhaul. Walking this journey with other believers made the experience not only healing but empowering. Radical helped to revive us to continue to show up and put the needed work in.
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The Romans
Before the program, I had huge doubt that my marriage was struggling. I was unable to distinguish whether I was wanting to do this alone or if it was going to be worth fighting for together. We have been struggling with respect, trust, honesty, and infidelity (on my part physically) and having a child outside of our marriage.
RFM has been a phenomenal experience for me. Although I missed a few classes due to being in the hospital and then having to take my husband to the hospital. I believe we are going to come to get the full effect of it all. But overall, it has been a tremendous help to me mentally and spiritually. It has also helped me emotionally, because some things that I didn’t understand I was able to get clarification. I have told a few couples about the class and pray that they can have the same open-mind and clear heart as I did become a student in the class. I loved our facilitators and our couple helpers because they really stayed in touch as promised and were always there. It is and will always be a blessing to have that spiritual circle available for me due to everything I am going through with my health. I feel like I have someone that cares and understands besides my children.
Antonio & Jennifer
"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace."
Epheisans 4:2-3
Before attending RFM, my husband and I already had a strong and loving marriage, by the grace of God. However, this 13-week journey has enriched our relationship in meaningful ways. RFM has equipped us with practical tools and godly wisdom, encouraging us to be more intentional in how we care for and prioritize one another-especially during busy seasons.
What stood out most is RFM's ability to meet couples where they are, whether they're struggling or thriving. That kind of range and flexibility is truly exceptional. This experience has been a blessing to us, and we are grateful for the growth it has inspired in our marriage.
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Dwayne & Kim
